What do u do when the X becomes active in your life. You were sooo happpy and sweet and all...... you were all over each other and then suddenly the X came........ He start to think, starts to pity her. So then u think about it whether u are better than the other gal. Then u have bitch fights in ur brain....... all the drama goes on and on. The fact that u get jealous is because when he works with his ex and sees his ex everyday. He takes her to and from work and spend most of his time in the office with him. For a fact u know that he might not have feeling for her or he might treat her as a sister since she is all alone. Then when u are thinking in a bitchy way u see that she is having him. Then he will tell u the whole story about him not having feelings for her and bla bla bla...but when she said she still likes him the whole story changed. The new gal has to suffer and bare the consequences as she choose to be in the relationship at the wrong time. Some how she just started to get to know him better and having fun and sharing the same interest and then the X has to drop the bomb and says she likes him all the while. But why now why not then.........
We were just getting to know each other better and learn to understand each others needs......
What should I do when he stops to think of her.....
Should I leave or should I stay.......
My heart tells me to stay as it is worth it because when u really enjoy and love that someone u will want to be able to cherish every second and minute you have with him. No matter if it will only last just a day....... thats heart talk.
As for reality wise he should just choose and learn to face the music and for me I should think twice of this man rite.... since he stop and hessitate between the new gal and the X.
I realize one thing in life is where you have missed the oppurtunity to love and to have someone, you might not have a chance to be with that someone again. I guess its the same for everything in life. You cannot regret or cry or try to grab the chance back. Coz when the time is over it is over. If you have had a second chance make sure the mistake is not being repeated again and make sure it is being cherish. Chances and Oppurtunity does not have take two in lifes.
To everyone that is reading this please understand that when the oppurtunity is set and given to you right in front of your face and you just let it go. Then you will have to wait for another chance.
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well... i think is worth try to hold on to it as you might regret later on. Sometimes you may need to wait for long for another opportunity to come.
It will work out as long as both parties be understanding and considering. Life is full of uncertainty but there are hopes everywhere. Nothing is impossible, only if you are unwilling to do it.
All these apply to most relationship. Parents and kids, husband and wife, boyfriend and girlfriend, friend and friend...
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